An engagement can be the most cherished memory between a couple. Of course, the planning process is stressful and leaves many brides and grooms feeling overwhelmed and anything but peaceful. The following article contains a number of helpful hints and ideas to help make the wedding preparations easier, and insure the ceremony itself is a wonderful success.
Your family might encourage you to follow tradition or make certain choices, but this day is about you and your spouse-to-be. Be kind and loving if you have to reject your extended family's suggestions, but don't let them dominate or manipulate you. Firmly assert that you (and of course your partner too) have the final say when it comes to your wedding plans. That way, you won't have any regrets about how the wedding day goes.
Give your wedding guests something to do on your wedding day. Engage your guests so that they are not forced to kill time between events. A scavenger hunt, or even a volleyball game, could be offered to your guests. When everyone is having fun and interacting, your wedding day will be a memorable event for all involved.
To make your wedding more personal, include a theme that encompasses you, your future spouse, and the things that are most important to your relationship. Pick out a theme that reflects your time together.
Take your fiance with you when you get fitted for your tuxedo. Ask those around you for an approval before making a final tuxedo choice. People will be taking a lot of pictures: make sure you look your best for this important day.
If you will not be serving a meal at your reception, consider ditching the tables and renting comfortable lounge furniture instead. Your guests will be more likely to interact if they are in a comfortable setting with lounges and chaises. Perhaps you could create different lounges and add plush seating to allow your guests to relax.
If you are the bride, your mother and your bridesmaids who plan on helping you get your gown on should be ready themselves well in advance, so they have time to assist you. Your bridal party should be focusing on you right before the ceremony begins. If other members of your wedding party aren't ready, then they might prevent you from getting ready.
Purchasing a wedding gown online may save you several hundred dollars initially. It is perfectly possible to purchase a gown for a few hundred dollars and have it altered for as little as $200. Budget in this additional cost.
Go easy on the number of fresh flowers you put on the guest tables for your wedding reception. Often, flowers just get in your guests' way. Excessive flowers can also be inconvenient for any allergy sufferers who are attending your wedding. Think about putting candles that aren't scented onto the table. This can create a romantic look.
If you don't want to spend a small fortune on flower arrangements on the reception tables, have you considered a display of potted plants instead? Seek out plants in lovely glazed pots, or make a simple stone look elegant with some ribbons and paint. The guest's wedding favor can be the plants in the pots, or you can put them in your garden.
If possible, see if your reception venue offers lighting choices. Certain occasions throughout the evening will call for their own separate mood and lighting, such as a first dance or cutting of the cake. Verify this with the venue, before signing your contract.
If the thought of a cake that costs thousands of dollars and packs on thousands of calories ruins your appetite, check with local and specialty bakers and inquire about individually sized portions. A variety of healthy alternatives are available for a wedding cake that won't cause sugar shock.
Your wedding has the potential to highlight the best parts of your personality, but if the wedding doesn't go well, it could very well highlight the worst parts, instead. Avoid any potential wedding collapse, by using the information you learned in this article, to your advantage.
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